There are few things as exciting as the anticipation of your wedding day and the first night you will spend together as husband and wife, kicking off a new phase in your lives as a couple. However, the great deal of time and energy you have undoubtedly put into making your big day everything you ever dreamed of may have caused you to overlook some important planning regarding how to create romance-filled, lasting memories once you two are finally alone. Following the inevitable stress and excitement of your wedding, you should have a game plan to reconnect with your brand-new spouse, creating sensuous harmony that will ignite a bold flame of desire.
Create a Romantic Scene
Nothing creates ambiance as quickly and perfectly as the glow of candlelight. No matter what you end up doing, whether dining on a delectable dinner for two, sipping champagne as you say cheers to your amazing wedding day or having a meaningful chat, everything will feel even more special in an atmosphere filled with the magical aura of flickering candles. If possible, arrange to have the space set up ahead of time so it is completely ready with the candles lit when you arrive. Be sure to include a large selection of candles, preferably all in one color such as white or cream. If you want to add visual interest, take along several sizes and shapes or different holders.
Further setting the mood, music should play an important part in your memory-making evening together. If you want to earn extra credit, you can take the time to create a custom playlist of meaningful songs between you or music that you know will set a sensuous tone. However, you might also think about keeping it simple with a favorite playlist or genre that you are both fond of, or create a station with an app like Pandora that will give you unlimited musical possibilities. It may just have you up and off of your feet for some dancing on a more intimate level.
Every couple enjoys their own unique ways to steam things up, but a failproof way to get started is by enjoying some sexy guessing games. Pack a blindfold, such as a scarf or bandana you already own, and let the fun begin! Blindfold your new spouse and ask them to guess what they’re tasting as you feed them some sweet treats such as a variety of fruits dipped in chocolate. When you’ve completed the whole round of treats, you can ask to take a turn as well. Another alluring game to try while blindfolded is to caress your mate with several different textures such as a feather, silk, velvet or even your bare fingertips and see if they can figure out what your are using to drive them wild.
Declare Your Love
One of the most genuine gifts you can give to the one you love most is something you’ve put a lot of thought into. Wow them with a list you put together before your wedding night of all the reasons why you love them. For a sweet memento, type or write out the list on beautiful paper so you can hang onto it for years to come as a reminder of your dazzling first night as a married couple. Whether you make it a surprise or let them know what you’re doing so they can reciprocate, you will be demonstrating just how in love you truly are.